Carol Rey, founder of The Elite School of Etiquette, embarked on her journey with a powerful realization: while teaching children worldwide, she noticed a difference in how they presented themselves compared to children in her own community. Inspired by a desire to bridge this gap, Carol began helping young people locally with self-presentation, teaching them how to communicate effectively, express themselves confidently, and navigate classroom settings with grace.
Her journey took an exciting turn when she had the opportunity to lead a formal dining etiquette class for young adults ages 18 to 25. Not only did the class participants thoroughly enjoy the experience, but so did Carol, discovering her natural flair for teaching etiquette. Encouraged by her enthusiasm and the support of those around her, she pursued a certification in etiquette instruction through the American School of Protocol. Her training was a seamless fit—she excelled and became a favorite of her instructors, quickly mastering the skills and knowledge to build a reputable and impactful business.
Today, The Elite School of Etiquette offers an array of programs and resources designed to instill confidence, respect, and refinement in individuals of all ages. From young students to seasoned professionals, Carol’s mission is clear: to empower people to carry themselves with dignity and self-assurance, both in formal settings and daily life.
Signature Programs and Services
The Elite School of Etiquette provides several key programs and resources designed to meet the needs of different age groups and stages in life. Carol’s approach goes beyond traditional lessons, fostering self-assurance that transcends the classroom. Here’s a look at the school’s signature offerings:
- The Historic Junior Cotillion
As charter members of The International League of Cotillions, The Elite School of Etiquette proudly upholds the rich cotillion traditions within the African American community, preserving an important cultural legacy. Aimed at youth in grades 6 through 10, the Junior Cotillion program teaches essential life skills, including social graces, proper introductions, and self-presentation, ensuring each participant is equipped with the tools for confident self-expression. The program is a unique blend of tradition and modernity, helping young people navigate today’s world with poise and respect. - The Elite Academy Charm School
This summer program, which runs from May and is tailored for girls ages 4 to 17, focuses on etiquette, ballet, and French. Designed to encourage elegance, culture, and personal growth, The Elite Academy Charm School offers a well-rounded experience that integrates grace with intellectual enrichment. Girls gain valuable life skills while experiencing the joys of learning new languages and movements, fostering a love for refinement that they carry forward. - Personal and Professional Development Workshop
For adults ages 18 and up, this immersive, one-day workshop provides a comprehensive guide to etiquette, from personal presentation to professional interactions. Participants enjoy hands-on practice with table manners and dining skills, culminating in a delightful dining experience at Maggiano’s, where they can refine their skills in a real-world setting. This workshop is an invaluable resource for professionals and individuals seeking to polish their etiquette and make a lasting impression.
Educational Resources and Support Materials
In addition to these signature programs, Carol Rey has created essential resources for families, young professionals, and anyone looking to brush up on their etiquette knowledge. Her book, “Etiquette for the Savvy Professional,” is a must-have, offering insights for those just entering the workforce as well as seasoned professionals needing a refresher. Covering topics from workplace etiquette to daily interactions, it is a resource every family can benefit from.
Carol also offers an e-book for aspiring etiquette consultants, providing a practical introduction to the field and a roadmap for those interested in teaching etiquette themselves. And her “100 Etiquette Tips” e-book, priced accessibly at $10, is a quick yet comprehensive guide covering essential etiquette tips across various scenarios, making it an ideal addition to any etiquette library.
Expanding Beyond Programs
Beyond structured programs, The Elite School of Etiquette also caters to organizations, churches, community groups, and individuals needing customized etiquette training. From preparing for galas to one-on-one dining practice, Carol offers personalized guidance that addresses specific needs, ensuring everyone can approach any occasion with confidence.
The Elite School of Etiquette is more than an etiquette school—it’s a place where people of all ages are equipped with tools for success, empowerment, and self-respect. Whether it’s through the historic Junior Cotillion, the summer charm school, or her personalized one-on-one sessions, Carol Rey’s mission is to help individuals of all backgrounds carry themselves with dignity, grace, and confidence in every interaction. For more information, visit The Elite School of Etiquette.
Published by: Nelly Chavez
